Question of the week? Wednesday Feb 13th - Feb 20th 2008
11 Comments Published by His Daily Variety on Wednesday, February 13, 2008 at 10:12 AM.
So you finally meet the one! Ok so granted its only the first date but aside from being sexy as hell, they are smart, confident, knows how to carry themselves, and seems to like you back! Do you sleep with them as early as possible to kill the sexual tension so you can start getting to know them minus the pink elephant in the room? Or... Do you wait on it a bit, and make the act a bit more valuable/special to achieve a connection that there not likely to find in the usual first date fuck?
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depends on where things go on that "first date" will determine the night. u can give it up and never hear from that person or u can patiently wait and the other party may get annoyed cause that may be something they not use to doin.
Today i know exactly what i want and what is really important to be. With that in mind I would probably look at the bigger picture and possibility and NOT sleep with him on the first date. If after the first data all we have is a physical connection...we can f*ck as long as it on both our terms and we know thats all it is. For the most part, however, I'm looking for much deeper connections these days. Making the one night stand less attractive as an option. All in all, I wouldnt want the basis of the romance to be physical, especially if he has all the other pieces (non-sexual) that turn me on.
Simple rule of thumb I've been living by for years: If you have sex on the first date, there probably won't be a second date.
In your 20's..you bang right away. Above 30, you're just stupid for doing so.
You wait. You wait if only because if you really like him you're going to want it to be somewhat special... As corny as that sounds. If I really like a guy I do the 3 date rule or if we're seeing alot of each other the 1 month rule. Which is we may do it after 3 speaced our dates or after a month if you still feel me then we can do the damn thing. But hey that's just me.
I'm with Kyon. You want it to be something special. Letting a little bit of tension build up is a good thing. You really get it then...lol. Plus, you want to make sure you have a good thing and not a proser.
Well said bernie
IF he or she is "THE ONE" it wont matter whether you wait 3 months or 3 minutes. Amen
ps, it's mariana! but dont tell anyone cause I'm "anonymous"
It all depends what one is looking for are you looking for the right one or right now? If it’s to be something lasting then you might want to wait and make it special. It’s important to wait. Sex complicates everything. In my opinion its better to enjoy one another’s company & enjoy getting to know one another then jumping each other’s bones.
I'm passionate and sexual 24/7 ..so I would not feel any different about having sex on the first date cause relationships are built on trust and friendship and not on sex. Sex cums and goes.
Now hopefully, if we did end up having sex on the first date, we would both be willing to persue it further but if we chose to not go further then at least I got some ass out of it.