Return to Saturn { Working over time}
4 Comments Published by His Daily Variety on Tuesday, October 30, 2007 at 2:20 PM.
Quick Re-visit
The Saturn return is an astrological phenomenon that occurs in a person's life at approximately 27–30 years of age and again around the age of 58–60, with the third and usually final occurrence around 86-88. The planet Saturn takes approximately 29.5 years to orbit the Sun; when it returns to the exact degree along the ecliptic it occupied at the time of a person's birth this is referred to as their "Saturn Return".
This is why astrologers believe that the thirtieth birthday is such a major rite of passage and is considered by many astrologers to mark the "true beginning" of adulthood, self-evaluation, independence, responsibility, ambition, and full maturation.
I came upon something about myself today, thought I share it!
1:24:43 PM amour.propre: Q
1:24:48 PM amour.propre: I have realized
1:24:51 PM amour.propre: Im nuts
1:24:59 PM sin122001: i just realized that
1:25:04 PM amour.propre: I never really healed from my past
1:25:15 PM amour.propre: lol
1:25:19 PM amour.propre: that I was nuts
1:25:20 PM amour.propre: lol
1:25:21 PM sin122001: which part
1:25:36 PM amour.propre: My father,
1:25:41 PM sin122001: o
1:25:43 PM sin122001: wht about him
1:25:46 PM amour.propre: abusive by my step
1:25:55 PM sin122001: really
1:25:57 PM amour.propre: He was never around
1:26:00 PM amour.propre: never met him
1:26:07 PM amour.propre: my step used to beat me with in an inch of my life
1:26:15 PM sin122001: awwwww
1:26:17 PM amour.propre: I never told my mother will I was 25
1:26:32 PM amour.propre: I held alot of pissed feeling with her
1:26:43 PM amour.propre: I thought being open about it was enough
1:26:45 PM amour.propre: but its not
1:27:19 PM sin122001: have u confronted him
1:27:36 PM amour.propre: No
1:27:39 PM amour.propre: the step
1:27:47 PM amour.propre: he is cracked out and living in SC
1:27:54 PM sin122001: o
1:27:59 PM amour.propre: my father I'd have to find
1:28:05 PM amour.propre: to give an ear full
1:28:05 PM sin122001: ok
1:28:09 PM sin122001: yea
1:28:13 PM amour.propre: but
1:28:19 PM amour.propre: when I met a man
1:28:26 PM amour.propre: I put all of that on them
1:28:31 PM sin122001: ok
1:28:33 PM amour.propre: so I always need them there
1:28:51 PM amour.propre: I need to be validated on the fact that Im loved
1:29:02 PM amour.propre: or that they aren’t leaving
1:29:06 PM amour.propre: and that’s not fair
1:29:10 PM amour.propre: to whomever
1:29:11 PM sin122001: ok, got it
1:29:29 PM amour.propre: well not angry so much
1:29:32 PM amour.propre: just broken
1:29:39 PM amour.propre: I mean crazy
1:29:41 PM amour.propre: Im not
1:29:45 PM amour.propre: just broken
1:30:26 PM sin122001: yeah i know your not crazy
1:30:44 PM amour.propre: lol
1:34:07 PM amour.propre: well thank u
1:34:11 PM sin122001: just troubled
1:34:15 PM sin122001: but then again
1:34:18 PM sin122001: we all are in some way
1:34:18 PM amour.propre: lol
1:34:27 PM amour.propre: glad I realized that
1:34:59 PM sin122001: yeah me 2
1:35:11 PM sin122001: cuz the minute u truely believe ur a wackjob
1:35:15 PM sin122001: u become a wackjob
1:35:19 PM amour.propre: well I better come to terms quick, before I miss
1:35:28 PM amour.propre: out on someone good! LORD I got to get out my own way
I want to be loved to validate the fact that I am loved!
Who needs smart when you have ABS?!
4 Comments Published by His Daily Variety on Thursday, October 25, 2007 at 11:30 AM.
My Good Friend Jimmy, is so Phine. LOL
No like Really he is! He has a new Calender out, and I want to show the world.
Order my boy's Calender. Tell him I sent ya. Here is a lil Peek.
GET IT! Don't be the last one!
http://www.ondisplaymen.com/modelstore.php?m=16
Add him to your Myspace
myspace.com/guaposiempre
On a more personal note.
6 Comments Published by His Daily Variety on Wednesday, October 17, 2007 at 3:11 PM.
I'm having a Claim it day! These are all Things I (WIll)!
Things I want in life, as of Now!
1.I will have a New Job.
2.I will be in LOVE.
3.I will be a hugh success with my future endeavor.
Those 3 are my focus!
In Life if you can't affirm it, and say it to the world, how in the hell do you think its going to happen?
The Lightskin party was Canceled!
2 Comments Published by His Daily Variety on Monday, October 15, 2007 at 5:20 PM.
Amid furor, DJ cancels party for 'light-skinned' blacks
'I made a mistake,' local party promoter says after Internet backlash.
Oralandar Brand-Williams / The Detroit News
DETROIT -- A local DJ and party promoter retreated Thursday from a plan to sponsor a bash that would let "light-skinned" black women into a downtown club for free.
But the "Light Skin Libra Birthday Bash" at Club APT on Woodward Avenue turned out to be a bashing -- of promoter Ulysses "DJ Lish" Barnes after word of the unusual party spread on the Internet.
"I made a mistake," Barnes said. "I didn't think there would be a backlash."
Barnes, who said he's been a party promoter for six years, canceled the event.
He said he has gotten angry calls and e-mails from around the country about the party.
"I didn't mean to offend anyone," he said. "I had planned a party for other shades (of black women). We were going to take a shade of color each week. Next week was going to be a party for 'Sexy Chocolate' and the week after that 'Sexy Caramel.' "
Barnes is African-American and describes himself as "dark skinned." The issue of skin color is an often painful and emotional among African-Americans. The history of slavery and the resulting legacy of intra-racial segregation have sometimes pitted darker-skinned and lighter-skinned blacks against one another.
A noted Los Angeles-based activist who goes by the name of Pearl Jr. was among the chorus of voices complaining about the party.
"I had a good conversion with him and he understood," said Pearl Jr., founder of the Black Women's Movement in Los Angeles and the author of the book "Black Women Need Love, Too."
"Ignorance can't always be an excuse," she said. "Colorism is real in the black community. It's especially very degrading to dark-skinned black women."
The party's discriminating tone harkens to the day of the "brown paper bag test," which compared the complexions of blacks to a brown grocery bag before they could be admitted to social clubs and affairs, said Pearl Jr.
The activist said she had a heart-to-heart talk with Barnes and he immediately told her he would cancel the party.
"He was basically falling in line with what we have been taught (by society) that the less African-looking you are the better you are," said Pearl Jr. "Basing whether someone is admitted on their skin color is discriminatory, which is really against the law."
Comments on Web sites and blogs about the party included urging a boycott of the party and filing a lawsuit against the party's promoter.
"The way this should be handled is that our light-skinned sisters should refuse to go unless the darker-skinned sisters received the same treatment," wrote one blogger. "We must stand together and not allow ANYONE, especially, a club to divide us."
Barnes said he is hoping to host an event to raise money for a charity to make up for whatever problems or pain he caused over the party flier.
You can reach Oralandar Brand-Williams at (313) 222-2027 or bwilliams@detnews.com.
'I made a mistake,' local party promoter says after Internet backlash.
Oralandar Brand-Williams / The Detroit News
DETROIT -- A local DJ and party promoter retreated Thursday from a plan to sponsor a bash that would let "light-skinned" black women into a downtown club for free.
But the "Light Skin Libra Birthday Bash" at Club APT on Woodward Avenue turned out to be a bashing -- of promoter Ulysses "DJ Lish" Barnes after word of the unusual party spread on the Internet.
"I made a mistake," Barnes said. "I didn't think there would be a backlash."
Barnes, who said he's been a party promoter for six years, canceled the event.
He said he has gotten angry calls and e-mails from around the country about the party.
"I didn't mean to offend anyone," he said. "I had planned a party for other shades (of black women). We were going to take a shade of color each week. Next week was going to be a party for 'Sexy Chocolate' and the week after that 'Sexy Caramel.' "
Barnes is African-American and describes himself as "dark skinned." The issue of skin color is an often painful and emotional among African-Americans. The history of slavery and the resulting legacy of intra-racial segregation have sometimes pitted darker-skinned and lighter-skinned blacks against one another.
A noted Los Angeles-based activist who goes by the name of Pearl Jr. was among the chorus of voices complaining about the party.
"I had a good conversion with him and he understood," said Pearl Jr., founder of the Black Women's Movement in Los Angeles and the author of the book "Black Women Need Love, Too."
"Ignorance can't always be an excuse," she said. "Colorism is real in the black community. It's especially very degrading to dark-skinned black women."
The party's discriminating tone harkens to the day of the "brown paper bag test," which compared the complexions of blacks to a brown grocery bag before they could be admitted to social clubs and affairs, said Pearl Jr.
The activist said she had a heart-to-heart talk with Barnes and he immediately told her he would cancel the party.
"He was basically falling in line with what we have been taught (by society) that the less African-looking you are the better you are," said Pearl Jr. "Basing whether someone is admitted on their skin color is discriminatory, which is really against the law."
Comments on Web sites and blogs about the party included urging a boycott of the party and filing a lawsuit against the party's promoter.
"The way this should be handled is that our light-skinned sisters should refuse to go unless the darker-skinned sisters received the same treatment," wrote one blogger. "We must stand together and not allow ANYONE, especially, a club to divide us."
Barnes said he is hoping to host an event to raise money for a charity to make up for whatever problems or pain he caused over the party flier.
You can reach Oralandar Brand-Williams at (313) 222-2027 or bwilliams@detnews.com.
Do I really even have to say anything?
Just Please write your thoughts!
"Let's be honest, the only reason why u all are sayin "Jared" is hot or attractive is because he's "light skin." It's funny how we as A.A.'s don't like to talk about it, but we all know that in our community that "light skin" is seen as attractive."
RJF
I wonder how deep this Light skin-Dark skin thing goes? Lets Dig!
Simple Blah
If you haven’t heard it being local NY news and all, a quick rewind in a nutshell! The discovery of a hangman's noose on the office door of a black professor at Columbia University's Teachers College Tuesday night, prompting outrage from students and faculty.
I simple roll my eyes, and here is why.
Yes it is a great time in history for black folks in the UNITED STATES. I have stated this before! But I’m basically tired of black people thinking that we are on an equal playing ground then when shit like this happens black people make noise and then its over, there is no change without a revolution!!!
You can predict how long black folks will protest these days like these silly Negros who think OBAMA (I do like the brother, but really now) has a chance and nooses are being hung from Louisiana to New York give me a break!
See I admired the Jews and well as most cultures outside of the blacks, they stick together through and through but us. We get a little degree, get a little job, make less than our white counter part and all of a sudden... there is no race problem for black folks....
Then when we think we made it we sit with white folks and think we arrived.. Then talk shit bout how black folks need to do better for themselves... I'm like Negro look to your left look to your right... it’s by design that there ain't any more black folks around you...
And not by your design... Simple we don’t control this! We have to stop acting the part.
Shut up and Start controlling shit! Focus on us instead of focusing on having them accept us.
…..and I’m done!
Based on a convo with SM! Thanks Boo!
Who you voting for?
2 Comments Published by His Daily Variety on Tuesday, October 09, 2007 at 11:38 AM.
Ding Dong! The Bush is dead. Which old Bush? The Wicked Bush!
Ding Dong! The Wicked Bush is dead.
Wake up - sleepy head, rub your eyes, get out of bed.
Wake up, the Wicked Bush is dead. he's gone where the goblins go,
Below - below - below. Yo-ho, let's open up and sing and ring the bells out.
Ding Dong' the merry-oh, sing it high, sing it low.
Let them know
The Wicked Bush is dead!
Yes, let the joyous news be spread The wicked Old Bush at last is dead!
Then this is a day of Independence For all the Munchkins and their descendants
Barrister
If any!?
Well he isn’t Dead, I would never say such things, I’m sure he is a Great guy underneath it all! Worst come to worst I know he be one hell of a drinking buddy. Any O way. For entertainment as lastly I have been watching all of the Presidential Debates, Its so funny to see all of the folks running for office try to out glitter and out charm one another. Some more then others. As I sit back and watch this debating process. Whom what’s to do what, in what time line, with how much of the tax payers monies. I question do people really know anything about the voting system, and how many people age 18-35 really vote.
In thinking this I have taken upon myself to HELP, I think!
Here is a break down of everyone running for the Democratic or Republican nomination.
The Dem’s
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_Democratic_presidential_candidates,_2008
The Rep’s
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_Republican_presidential_candidates,_2008
Read a little about them, see who you will be voting for if you plan to vote. Now I’m very passionate about voting. I dumped someone once because they didn’t. Now given I’m so not that dramatic anymore, but you feel me.
Here is a site you can register to vote, it takes 4 mins. DO IT!
http://www.declareyourself.com/?gclid=CKmlqpyRgo8CFQowUQod9Slfuw
Ding Dong! The Wicked Bush is dead.
Wake up - sleepy head, rub your eyes, get out of bed.
Wake up, the Wicked Bush is dead. he's gone where the goblins go,
Below - below - below. Yo-ho, let's open up and sing and ring the bells out.
Ding Dong' the merry-oh, sing it high, sing it low.
Let them know
The Wicked Bush is dead!
Yes, let the joyous news be spread The wicked Old Bush at last is dead!
Then this is a day of Independence For all the Munchkins and their descendants
Barrister
If any!?
Well he isn’t Dead, I would never say such things, I’m sure he is a Great guy underneath it all! Worst come to worst I know he be one hell of a drinking buddy. Any O way. For entertainment as lastly I have been watching all of the Presidential Debates, Its so funny to see all of the folks running for office try to out glitter and out charm one another. Some more then others. As I sit back and watch this debating process. Whom what’s to do what, in what time line, with how much of the tax payers monies. I question do people really know anything about the voting system, and how many people age 18-35 really vote.
In thinking this I have taken upon myself to HELP, I think!
Here is a break down of everyone running for the Democratic or Republican nomination.
The Dem’s
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_Democratic_presidential_candidates,_2008
The Rep’s
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/United_States_Republican_presidential_candidates,_2008
Read a little about them, see who you will be voting for if you plan to vote. Now I’m very passionate about voting. I dumped someone once because they didn’t. Now given I’m so not that dramatic anymore, but you feel me.
Here is a site you can register to vote, it takes 4 mins. DO IT!
http://www.declareyourself.com/?gclid=CKmlqpyRgo8CFQowUQod9Slfuw
Oprah's Debt Diet
http://www.oprah.com/money/debtdiet/money_debtdiet_main.jhtml
Debt collectors can't wait forever to hit you with suit
The statute of limitations on debts varies from state to state from as little as three years to as long as 10 years. In New York, New Jersey and Connecticut, a debt is time-barred after six years. Debt collectors or creditors can still ask you to pay old debts, as long as they follow federal law. The law prohibits debt collectors from engaging in any unfair, deceptive or abusive practices while collecting debts.
However, they can't do much if you refuse because they cannot take you to court. If they try, all you have to do is tell the judge that it's a time-barred debt.
http://www.oprah.com/money/debtdiet/money_debtdiet_main.jhtml
Debt collectors can't wait forever to hit you with suit
The statute of limitations on debts varies from state to state from as little as three years to as long as 10 years. In New York, New Jersey and Connecticut, a debt is time-barred after six years. Debt collectors or creditors can still ask you to pay old debts, as long as they follow federal law. The law prohibits debt collectors from engaging in any unfair, deceptive or abusive practices while collecting debts.
However, they can't do much if you refuse because they cannot take you to court. If they try, all you have to do is tell the judge that it's a time-barred debt.
10 Things you don’t know about Jared Shuler} Now known as JShu HA!
15 Comments Published by His Daily Variety on Monday, October 01, 2007 at 12:44 PM.
10 Things you don’t know about Jared Shuler} Now known as JShu HA!
1. I’m cixelsyd} sadly that was easier to spell.
2. I have never outright told my Mother I am gay. (We talk about it, but I have yet to say the words)
3. I can’t drive a car.- Look I know its so damn sad, But I so have a reason why, and its good- kind of.
4. I lost my virginity @ 16 to a Jehovah’s Witness. LONG story!
5. I’m deathly afraid of Rodents! Living in NY, ain’t a good look.
6. I was an obese child. {I think people know that one}
7. I hate tomatoes (Won’t touch them with a ten foot pole)
8. I made the worst decision by coming to my new job!
9. I love children { Plan to have a few} I know, why ask.
10. I have way to much pride.*
*Video Blog to follow soon.
1. I’m cixelsyd} sadly that was easier to spell.
2. I have never outright told my Mother I am gay. (We talk about it, but I have yet to say the words)
3. I can’t drive a car.- Look I know its so damn sad, But I so have a reason why, and its good- kind of.
4. I lost my virginity @ 16 to a Jehovah’s Witness. LONG story!
5. I’m deathly afraid of Rodents! Living in NY, ain’t a good look.
6. I was an obese child. {I think people know that one}
7. I hate tomatoes (Won’t touch them with a ten foot pole)
8. I made the worst decision by coming to my new job!
9. I love children { Plan to have a few} I know, why ask.
10. I have way to much pride.*
*Video Blog to follow soon.
